Candi Kaine Lucai
The Sacred Ugly
Episode 15: Confidence Through Discipline
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Episode 15: Confidence Through Discipline

Make space to suck.
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I’m the type of person who, if I’m not good at something immediately, I get discouraged.


I’ve quit so many things the minute they got hard, it could honestly be a case study.


And sometimes I look back, and I wonder:
What could I have created if I had just allowed myself to be bad at something for a little while?

If I had just made space to suck.

Your confidence will grow the more you commit.

You get better at speaking when you speak.

You get better at writing… by writing.

Not by waiting for some divine download. Not by comparing your drafts to someone else’s finished product.

Just… by doing it. Over and over and over.

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